DOUBTS

Useless. Unsuccessful. Ugly. Unfit. Mannerless. Poor. Typical. Selfish. Undisciplined. Unhappy. Shy. Unconfident. Timid. Stupid. Shameless. Illiterate. Alone. Arrogant. Insensitive. Selfish. Jealous. Greedy. Unlovable. Impatient. Rude. Careless. Damaged. Destroyed......

Most of us have used such words for describing ourselves. We degrade ourselves, break ourselves and demand support from others. Isn't this unfair? When we aren't ready to trust ourselves, be humble with ourselves, hold our emotions and take stand for own self, why do we expect others to do that for us?

Stop taking validations from people around you. Stop pleasing people around you and 99% of the problems you are dealing with will vanish automatically. Can you claim that you are keeping yourself happy always?? Most people will say NO. Then, how do you expect to keep others happy all the time? All these expectations are meaningless and exist in your mind only. All you need to do is VALIDATE your actions, your emotions and BE ENOUGH for your own self. Infact, this is the real detachment. Don't let people affect you. Manage yourself only and you will find yourself full of peace and progress. 

We all have a tendency to demotivate ourselves. We are always ready with negative adjectives to describe ourselves but when it comes to appreciating ourselves, we don't find words. Why does this happen? This is because we can't lie to ourselves. We can say with confidence that we are lazy because we know we are being lazy willingly and consciously. But at the same time, we can't proudly say that we work hard because we are not convinced about that. So, we are not being modest, but we are not convinced. Do we want to lead a life where everything will happen as written in destiny or we want to create our destiny? The day we can proudly say we work hard for being where we are, we will be free from all doubts, confusions and insecurities. 

Let's decide to drop all our insecurities today, break all the resistance existing in our body, get rid of all the prejudices against people, emotions and situations and set ourselves free to do whatever makes us HAPPY.